Dear Queenie,

  I’ve been involved with a guy for the past year and we’ve been getting along really really well, but he has a girlfriend and a beautiful baby girl.

  When we met we promised each other we would not get involved with each other but with spending time and bonding that’s just what has happened.

  Now I feel bad. I want to let him go, but some part of me just can’t find the will to do it. I want to tell him what I feel for him, but I’m afraid he will turn me down. I also don’t want to tell him because I don’t want to be a relationship-wrecker.

  Queenie, help me please!—Confused

Dear Confused,

  If this guy has a girlfriend and a child with her, he has no business getting involved with you. He is a cheater and you are already a relationship wrecker. Furthermore, if he cheats on his baby-mother, he surely will cheat on you eventually, if he isn’t already doing so.

  Perhaps if you keep these unpleasant facts in mind you will not have so much trouble finding the will to “let him go,” not that you actually have any strings on him as it is and probably never will.